Have you seen Todd Phillips' Joker movie? Have you recovered yet? Have you moved on from the piercing and delirious eyes of Joaquin Phoenix?
Joker has sparked many conversations about mental illness. But while the movie gets some things right, other parts seem lost in translation. According to psychiatry professor Dr Ziv Cohen, who specializes in violence and psychopathy, "Joker strengthens the incorrect stereotype that there is a link between mental illness and violence."
There is not. Because studies show that people with mental illnesses are far more likely to hurt themselves than they are to hurt other people. Cohen says the Joker doesn't fall into the criteria for diagnoses such as schizophrenia or bipolar disorder, and is more likely to be a psychopath, but even that is reductive. But yes, Arthur Fleck is obviously mentally ill.
That said, I believe there are a few key takeaways from the movie that should be labeled Oscar worthy.
First, about being kind to those around you. Because as the old saying goes, everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. So be kind. Always. Second, about being kind to ourselves. Spoiler alert!
Let's look back. There are parts I loved about the movie as well as the genius soundtrack; how the mentally ill Joker is still capable of taking care of his mother, picturing himself having a relationship, and even holding on to a job despite the mocking and constant badgering from his colleagues.
Yours Truly cannot help but reflect, and be grateful. Although work may at some point take its toll now and then, most of us are still in a good state of mind.
And those who are not? Have we done enough for ourselves, or have we done too much, or too little? Have we managed our work/life balance to keep our general health intact? Have we as leaders in each of respective industries provided an outlet that supports a healthy working environment? If you are looking for answers, join in our recent conversation with Marriott General Managers on work/life balance in promoting breast cancer awareness. A fascinating article related to the recently held Mental Health Day, as well as October being Breast Cancer Awareness month.
A healthy body encourages a healthy mind, so on a daily basis, look for nearby activities in your neighborhood, such as these sporting events in Jakarta, try these swimming pools if you are in Bandung, or maybe invest in these retreats the next time you are travelling to Bali.
Thrive to be well as mental health is not a joke.
If you want to know more about mental health and how to help, talk to some of these organisations in Bali and find a cause that you can support. Maybe their stories can help us believe that all the everyday hardships in life, work stress, and relationship strains, are better shared with people who care about us and we care about. All of life's ups and downs are normal, so long as we know how to bounce back. And a supportive network helps even more.
As Sinatra would sing (with Arthur Fleck swaying in the background), "That's life…"
Best Regards,
The What's New Indonesia Team | 
